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Thursday, March 18, 2010

I am not breakable!

It is funny to me how people try to "Save" my feelings. I had this experience today. On Monday a girl in my child development class was whispering to the girls in my group and I was the only one she wasn't telling her "secret" to. Then she whispered to people in my science class and I was not included. Today I heard her say during science she was pregnant. I went up to her and told her congratulations. I was so excited for her. She then said to me, "I didn't want to tell you because I know you have had problems getting pregnant and I didn't want to hurt your feeling or make you mad". To tell you the truth telling secrets behind me hurt my feelings.

Note to everyone: If you are my friend and you become pregnant do not be afraid to tell me. I will be so excited for you. I would never feel any different. Keeping "secrets" from me would be much worse. Love you all!

Dani

6 comments:

Daniel and Tiffany Ward said...

I love you Danielle!!

Carina & Dan said...

I know I felt guilty when I got pregnant & Teresa still wasn't. You are great Danielle!

The Lowarys said...

You're awesome!! That seems like a silly thing to try to keep a secret, did she think you wouldn't be able to tell in 9 months that she was pregnant? It gets pretty obvious! I know she was trying to be nice, but not being included in the secret would make me feel pretty bad too- it's a good thing you're so darn great!

Dani said...

I love you! You are one of my favorite people : ) I wish everyone were as nice as you!

I'm glad you found out what the BIG secret was- I guess your friend's intentions were good- hopefully she learned that its just best to be open and honest! I guess she is still getting to know you otherwise she would have known what a sweet person you are and how happy you would be for her!

Will you be coming back to Oregon anytime soon for a visit or anything? I talked to Andrea a couple weeks ago and we decided that we need to make this Judd girl and Warren girl get together a reality! It wouldn't be the same withhout you!

Kristen Moss said...

I think you are a wonderfully strong person and I admire so much about you.

If and when you move back to oregon, I would like to be friends in real life. :)

Anonymous said...

I was thinking the same thing Kristen