Why do people ask stupid questions?

I know this shouldn't be a complaining blog. However, there are just some questions that are better left un-asked. Since being here in Idaho I have had many people make comments about how we have been married three years and don't have any children yet. My very first week in church one of the sister had the audacity to tell me, "she couldn't believe that we had been married three years and didn't have any children. Then she went on to ask me if I knew that the prophets tell us we should have children". I am about ready to switch to a family ward instead of a married student ward, because you don't really fit in with the newlyweds and we don't fit in with the longer married couples because they all have children. It just gets really frustrating sometimes. I am also not trying to get a pity party, I think sometimes it just helps to voice your feelings. Then today I saw a guy that grew up in the same home ward as me. He asked how long we had been married. I showed him a pictures of Alia (Denise's daughter), because he was closer in age to Denise. He asked if we had any children yet? of course I said no, and then he said, "isn't that what the next step is after marriage". Anyway, he probably didn't say it to be mean, but maybe I should just wear a sign on me that says, WE HAVE BEEN TRYING FOR THREE YEARS! I know for a fact that Jacob and I will have children someday. I know we will. It has taken me a lot of time and tears to figure that out. It just really puts a damper on your day. So please the next time you want to ask someone when they are going to start having children, don't do it because you never know what is going on in their life and their relationship.